souls sound

I, touch the sky, all around,
in our eyes
And who
wouldn't believe
What's happening to
me
Expectations all around
My intuition knows no doubt I could
Lose my way on this merry-go-round
So I, like a bird will fly
To see
Just what could
be
And patience I will learn
Before this fire burns
Intuition's got a hold on me
There's magic in the air
I wanna breathe
Change,
change all
around
Go with the rhythm
The soul sound

I never wrote this, its a gorgeous song from the sugababes (earlier album when Siobhan was a member, before Mutya also left LOL - pity they're thought of as a group where band members are disposable..)There music is quite good, fondly remember how "push the button" was my memorable new years' song :)

This is off topic but i'll mention it anyway, because it's been bothering me anyway.. I went to a Janaazah(funeral) after work yesterday - mom's uncle had passed away - But when i got there i felt so lost, so out of place, and what was more worrying was that i arrived there on my own because the rest of my family got there long before i did since i was still at work. The funeral was meant to start after i finished work so i did not arrive there very late, in fact i left work 15minutes earlier.

I think the point i'm trying to make is that i felt bad because i have no idea what to say to someone who's just lost someone, and i think what made me feel worse was that i didn't really know the man well.. i only remember what he looked like.

What do you say to someone who's just lost someone? "I'm sorry for your loss"? Everyone else said that exact line and what difference does it make once you've said it?

I included the deceased in my prayers maybe that's best?