My aunt passed away on monday night..
It happened so quickly and it was a really big shock to us all, because after we had seen her a few nights ago, she had quickly recovered from the stroke... she was talking and she could move and she wanted to go home.She was allowed to go home, but then she got rushed to the hospital on monday evening again..
It still feels surreal, i keep thinking "is she really gone?" because i can picture her clearly and she was so happy to see us and i remember things..like how she made a joke about saving the vanilla wafer ice cream for my uncle because he only eats vanilla ice cream..
My mom took it really bad..she went into shock and she got really sick. They had to sedate her.She's ok now.. Just that everyone really is finding this hard to absorb.
Everything just felt strange walking into their house and she was'nt there.Her body was there but when you there you'd expect her to be sitting there or offering tea [because all of the Hendricks's love tea and won't ever refuse it]..
I love tea too.
It was her time to go, I will make duah for her, that the Almighty (SAW) grant her Janatul Firdous and that He puts Nur in her Kabar Inshallah.
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6 comments:
I'm really sorry for your loss. Pray for her, and give loads of support to your mom. These times are never easy, but we all get through in the end Inshaa Allah.
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji oon.
I'm really sorry.. that must be really tough for your mom and all of you. Your memories will always be something to cherish..
Shukran for the well wishes and prayers..i think we all needed some time to let it set in..
But like what was said, it was neither to soon or too late.
It may not be easy for the family, but The Almighty (SAW) does not give us things that we cannot handle so as long as we are their for one another it will become a lighter load for my uncle and his daughter:)
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon.
Sorry for your loss, but its good to see you're taking it so well, Ameen to your dua.
May Allah grant you and your family sabr.
I also love tea :)
Very sad to hear about your aunt, more so because it was so similar to circumstance in which I lost my aunt 6 years ago. She was an eccentric that really livened up her surroundings, and we miss her dearly as I'm sure you will miss your aunt. All I can say is, Insha-Allah, Allah will grant her Janatul-firdaus. It gets easier...but it takes time.
Insha-Allah Ameen.
The good thing is that the whole family is there to support my uncle..he feels so lost wen we leave but he dsnt want anyone fussing over him..we understand..
Someone spoke some wise words, that wen one is faced with calamity and loss of any sort..there are things brought to us like another joyous ocassion, like the upcoming wedding of my cousin...so it makes this ordeal easier to get through, for everyone:)
You're right thought singleguy, everything just takes time. Insha-Allah!
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